Do you really love your work?

I want to give you a simple example,a question .Answer to yourself honestly. Maybe you can share with other people. “What if you were to put into a room , a stuffy room ,let’s say in summer , hot ,sweaty and you’d feel like you’re in hell, and with people you don’t like , how’d you feel? But what if you were to put into a room , a worse one , with your beloved girlfriend whom you haven’t seen for a year or so, how’d you feel? Last week I asked this question to one my friends and he gave me a simple but a really helpful answer.His response was” I would say that I would feel more comfortable with my beloved girlfriend in a worse room. This is because the love we share is the most important. If hardships are great and pain is great, the love we have for one another gives us the strength to continue on. Also relationships and people are important! There is nothing else in this world, including money and jobs that we will see after we die. But people, we will see after we die. People live forever! I love people and will endure all hardships to be able to tell people about Jesus and see them in heaven forever. So, the answer is that I would always like to be with the people I love and who love me! Love conquers all.” His response was very simple but it reveals a profound truth. The love you have for your family ,friends and God or your spiritual leader or  simply the teachings of your religion, can drive your life . It can show miracles you’d never have imagined. Many leaders have sacrificed for the benefit of the people in  their countries, for the people they loved,  throughout  the human history.And we call them heroes.

But what about your work ? How do you love your work ? Do you really show affection?

I asked you this question to my friend  because I wanted an answer, that’s it.I got it now.Thanks a billion for your answer.At first ,my answer for my own question was about loving your hobby, aptitude and your destination. When I was attending 10th standard in my home town, it was very important for me to get good grades so as to be eligible to any university in my country.I loved my goals and I tried very hard and could achieve what I wanted.I had to go to bed lately  at night ,at around 12 or 1:00 and get up very early at around 4 or 4:30. Even though I couldn’t have enough sleep as a 16-year-old teenager having to study about 16  hours a day, that was very easy for me.That’s all because I loved it. Even though it might seem scary for some other students( perhaps they’d feel like they’re in hell), it was like playing a game for me and that was fun.I couldn’t score any more than 60% in Maths and I was weak in it , but I welcomed it,it was a challange. I tried and tried and I scored 94% in the final examination and my teacher was surprised.My hardest goal was to be one of the top-ten students in my country .I couldn’t achieve it but I was happy coz  I could go to the best university in this country.What I’m talking about is the love you have for your work. When you love your work, you forget all the difficulties and barriers and you’re happy being able to over come barriers that other people can’t even imagine. And you’ll always see the bright side.
I’m attending med school at the moment .I  applied for it just because I scored high marks and it’ s the best university in this country. At first it seemed like I’m interested in Medicine but later I knew that it is not my career. And it was not my goal to become a physician . As a child I dreamed of becoming a president and sometimes the world’s richest man.When I grew up I understood that I’m good at computing.I’m no more interested in Medicine and I skip classes too often. When I try to understand the stuffs , I can . But whenever I try to memorize or prepare for the exam ,it’s a big problem for me. I always forget what I’ve been taught or what I’ve read in just a week. And that’s awful.My family and friends insist that I should continue studying medicine and get a degree and a good job and do whatever you like or go abroad( coz I always wanted to live in another country).

I told my friend that  at the moment I feel like I’ve been put to a cage( maybe a stuffy room I described) ,perhaps by myself or by the situation.That’s why I decided to get out of the cage. I have decided to leave med school and take an IELTS test and prepare for a journey back home, I don’t mean my home town but my own home of work, the real home I love.I believe I can do that.Leaving med schoold doesn’t mean that my life is going to be bad, it’s all about getting better and achieving freedom. My brain and my mind would be free and able to think and plan for my goals.When you believe in yourself and your energy you can do anything. Barriers are barriers only when you see barriers as barriers.That’s it . People might think that I’m boastful , arrogant and over-confident, but without such attitudes your life’s never going to improve.You’ll be stuck in a rat race ,never improving. Sometimes it would seem like it is improving ,but it’s all about getting into a bigger cycle and so bigger  problems.That’s it.
——  I have a  girl friend whom I love very much and when I asked her about leaving school, she also says that I should not leave. Then it came into my mind that if I leave med school it would be very difficult for me to get her.No school, no job,no money and she won’t even think about me.And what if I go abroad? When I come back to my country  I’d see her as a mother of two or three children ,married to another guy. . That affects my thoughts. The people you love and the people they love you sometimes can change the way you think and the direction of your life.I think I could relate my friend’s answer to my situation because of her.

What about you? Are you really in love with your work? Do you believe in “LOVE” driven life?

7 factors that an IQ test cannot measure

An IQ test can tell if you’re intelligent,but it,by no means ,can tell you’re if you’re going to be successful in your life. There are other factors that define your personality and these can tell if you’re gonna be successful.
The following 7 factors are some of these;

1.Diligence
You need to be industrious in working hard to reach your goals.

2.Tolerability
The ability to endure difficulties and barriers.Suppose you want to be a lawyer and you’re attending a law school but you soon get bored with the classes.Your goal is to become a lawyer, and you’ll need to tolerate the boredom.

3.Intuition
Some fields don’t need to apply all the skills you have,they just need to apply specific skills.Computer programming needs you to have a very good logical and lateral thinking skills but not verbal skills.Suppose you’re a born logical person and you have poor verbal skills ,and you score lower than other people in an IQ test because of poor verbal skill,that does not mean that you’re not gonna be as successful as other people coz you’ve got a good logical mind and you’re gonna be successful if you go into the business of programming.
Some people are born politicians and they can do better in politics than those people with higher IQ scores.(Note that some people are good test takers so that they’ll get super high scores even though they’re not genii.)

4.Creativity
Having a super high IQ does not mean that you’re more creative than those with lower IQ scores.An IQ test cannot measure your creativity.

5.Courage
It takes a courageous mind to be successful in life,but not always.

6.Your Strongest Talent
If you don’t know your strongest talent ,how are you gonna set your goals?You’ll just be lost.Without a goal ,you’ll achieve nothing but end up asking God for help.

7.Fate
Some people they are extremely bright and they know their talents but because of their fate ,they end up their life as an ordinary person.You don’t need to be lucky but if you can’t avoid back luck you’re not gonna be successful.

Jobs for INTJ’s

I’m also an INTJ.I’m now studying medicine and I’m getting bored with med science.I found it interesting when I was a fresh man. I failed the 2nd year exam and still a sophomore.Senior sophomore . I failed not because I have a low IQ level but because I got bored . What I hate most is Anatomy , coz you have to memorize all the stuffs. I like to figure out body parts in my mind when reading but I hate to memorize and repeat again again. You don’t have to think logically or creatively when learning med science , esp anatomy.You just have to understand what’s written and memorize. I just hate it.I was designing web pages last year and now I’m getting bored again. I’m just confused. I don’t attend classes regularly and I’m using internet about 5 hours a day these days .Just to find out what’s the most appropriate job for an INTJ type person.I took many career tests that lead nowhere.And also IQ tests. The last test says my IQ is 160, which means I can be a scientist or inventor or like that.I just don’t know what to do. I wanna be a scientist or inventor ,but I don’t know my strongest talent till now.
Most INTJ”s get bored when they have to do the same things again and again. They don’t like “same,same”. They just want to do different things each and everyday . That’s why they jump from one career to another.Med science is the worst one for INTJ’s ,I think. Coz you have to repeat reading so as to remember the stuffs. The new developments in med science are not very interesting and they won’t keep you interested in it.

The following jobs may be the good ones for INTJ’s
computer programmer
writer
research scientist
Philosopher
psychiatrist / psychologist
designer
politics or
law (you’ll find studying boring, but when you start your career as a lawyer or politician you’ll love it, most INTJ’s are logical and like to solve problems )
Learning new languages.

Improve your IQ

IQ scores generally reaveal your intelligence. However, it’s not exact and you shouldn’t expect too much from this. Some IQ test online are designed to exaggerate than show your real iq, to attract more people to their website or they are made just for fun. You should rather go to your psychologist and ask for an IQ test , if you want to.When I tried for the first time my iq was around 110 ,and took the different tests over the last few months,and it has been improving. Once I scored 149 and I know my average score is about 130.I was taking a 2-year-break after I have finished high school and I almost forgot the mathematical concepts.That is when I took the first test. After that , I was attending medical school and I needed to work out many math questions and I had to learn different things,like medical physiology and biochemistry.I think such new things aroused my brain and helped my brain work better.My IQ seems to be improving when I learn new things, things I haven’theard or learned before.So, I think if you learn new things, your brain works harder and it is spontaneously stimulated by the new facts so that your iq seems to be improving.

It doesn’t matter whatever IQ score is, you can improve your IQ to feel yourself smarter ,and to achieve success. There are plenty of ways to increase your IQ.

First of all you should believe in yourself. It’s pshychologic and what you need most is self-confidence. Yes, you can do nothing if you lack self-confidence. Believe in YourSelf that you can be a genius.

Yes, You are a genius. No , genius , even Einstein is not a born genius.He couldn’t even pass his exams when he was a school boy.No one would expect him to be a greatest genius of the 20th century. We don’t know the secrets of such geniuses , but there are ways to increase your IQ. I can certify that you can improve your IQ by following the given techniques.It’s approved by the scientists and I acknowledge that it’s not my technique and these are adopted and modified based on my views.

1. Practice Pseudo Telekinesis or meditation.

How to practice Pseudo Telekinesis? Follow the link http://www.geniusintelligence.com/pseudotelekinesis.htm

There are many ways to meditate. Worshipping or praying is also a kind of meditation. Pseudo Telekinesis resembles some of meditation methods. Buddhist way of meditation is to concentrate on your breath, to know the ingoing air and outcoming air. You can also figure out yourself a spot or a shape or your God’s Image in your mind.You should practice at least 15 min .

2. Diet Planning- includes sea food rich in iodine and EPA. EPA is rich in fish oil, so you can take fish oil capsules( 1-3 cap per day).It’s important not to skip your breakfast.

3.Sleeping Habits- Some say your sleeping habit can also effect your mental capicity, which has a huge effect on your IQ.The best way is to get to bed early and get up early in the morning and have a fresh breath.

4.READ-READ-READ. It’s one of the best ways to increase your IQ.When you watch a video , you don’t need to use much of your intelligence to understand what’s happening.When you read a story, your mind figure out things and you need to use your brain.When you read a novel, e.g, if the character is riding a car, you should figure out a car , the driver, the road, the building alongside the road or trees in your mind. Sometimes you can sense the smell , not the actual smell, but the smell of the coffee in the novel.By doing so , your brain is aroused ,and it means you’re using both side of the brain.And don’t forget to try to read between the lines.

5.Stay Positive.If you’re depressed, you know what happens to youself.

6.Learn New things- Observing new things means waking up your unused parts of the brain.Learn new languages, or travel to gain regional experiences , travelling should not be just for fun,it should be for your brain.

7.Never Waste your Time- Even if you’re sitting and relaxing in a rocking chair, try solving puzzles or practice meditation.If you’re stuck in somewhere, i.e, while you’re waiting for your friend at the airport,look and study the world around you