wanne be happy? Be yourself.
Not everyone wants to be happy. You might probably think that there’s no one in the world who doesn’t ever want to be happy.If you think so you’re wrong.Actually there are many people who just want to get in trouble and unconsciously afraid to be happy.But they feel comfortable that way. Some people just like to sit in a chair and think about their problems all day long.They don’t really think to find out the solution but just to feel.Sounds strange. I’ve already felt that way and seen some people like me. But I’m not like that anymore ever since I started to realize that.
When I looked back to my sad days I realized that I was consciously willing to feel sad and stay in a room lonely for many hours , smoking or doing something.Not really trying to work out the problems but just to feel the “sweet” sadness.That’s really strange. I’ve seen many kids who really like to cry ,they like to cry and there’s no way to stop them.Just like that. When we’re emotionally immature we don’t know what we are doing and we just know what we want.And it’s the root of all sadness and loneliness.
Whenever you feel sad or lonely you should look back to yourself ,you should not focus on the problems first.You mind is cloudy at that moment and you can’t really concentrate on the problems.Just look back to yourself in a mirror. How do you look? How do you feel to see yourself down in the dumps?Then ask yourself why you’re feeling so sad or lonely. It would be difficult at first to get the answer but if you try a little hard you’ll soon get the wonderful results . Don’t do anything just ask yourself.
Do you really want to be happy?What are your problems?Why are you feeling so sad over such small problems? Are those problems really important to you? Are the problems more important than yourself? Nope? Then why are you feeling so sad? Do you need approval of other people in your life? Can’t you be yourself? Each of us is unique and each and every problems is also unique and it came to you not to harm yourself but to teach you a lessson. Accept the difficulities ,obstacles, and every negative events as your game. And start to play with them . You’ll soon forget about sadness and loneliness and would have to ask other people the definition of them.
